For life sometimes can be .... out of focus!
No matter how hard you try or how eager you are to have your life in order, it tends to slip out of focus every once in a while.
In photography you have to look at the big picture and decide what elements you want in and what elements you want out of your picture. You need to decide which of the elements you chose to keep in your picture is the most material to the story you want to tell through your picture. Then you have to focus your camera on this element giving it the priority in your picture. Eventually the rest of the elements in your picture will fall into priority accordingly.
Just like it is in photography, so it is in life.
You still want to leave your life out of focus?
What story are you telling?